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marine, I don't buy her excuse. I just plain old don't. People don't work that way. Someone pesters you to sleep with them, you're married and you just "give in"? Think about that. She's trying to lessen you're hurt, but she wanted to do this. Either he raped her - which she says didn't happen - or she willingly fucked him. There are no degrees here.
I'm not saying that you need to dump her or stay with her - that's for you to decide - but you should at least be more honest with yourself about what really happened. Don't make your own excuses for her or allow her to make them for herself. That's where the problem is.
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