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If you truly loved her, you wouldn't snoop. You hacked her Facebook account and saw stuff that you weren't meant to see. It's not like you discovered she was actually cheating on you; you saw a private conversation. Then you played police detective to try to catch her in a lie. You set yourself up for failure.
You violated her trust. My guess is that you're broken up already but she doesn't want to waste the time and money to tell you. It's not like accessing her Facebook account was a one-time thing. You admitted as much. That said, once was too many times in my book.
Basically, you're the bad guy here. You're trying to make her look bad because she "lied". She didn't lie, dude. If I'd have been in her position, I'd have broken up with you immediately just based on that. Not cool. Obviously, my answer to your first question of "should it end" is yes, but not because of anything to do with her. You clearly have trust and boundary issues and probably need to work on those before you get involved with anyone else. It's kind of ironic that you're questioning her maturity when she's the one behaving like an adult throughout.
Sorry to be blunt, but you asked. Maybe you'll learn something.
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Last edited by The_Jazz; 07-19-2011 at 06:37 AM..
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