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Originally Posted by high_jinx
i've learned to enjoy my alone time and actually kind of worry about having enough if i get into a relationship.
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You know, that just articulated one of my own big fears. It's often been a factor in subconsciously sabotaging things with women before they ever really go anywhere.
I'm just so comfortable and used being alone and unaccountable the idea of being with someone, even though I'd quite like to be, freaks me out a bit.
But really, regardless of what games we all play and choices we all make, we only ever really trade one set of complications for another. I guess it's a matter of what is most important to us at the time.