Completely agreed with dlish.
Also: She gave in and had sex with him "once" (like it really matters how many times)? Listen to yourself, mate. You say it like it's a mitigating factor that he TALKED her into STOPPING HER RESISTANCE TO HIS ADVANCES and to cheat on you. I mean, what the fuck brah? At least she should have come up with binge drinking or blackmail, cause her guard should be stronger than simply being talked to. Your dlish-coined puppy attitude will only cause you the same situation, just a bit later than right now.
EDIT: It beggars belief that she was so weak in her loyalty towards her husband. Really, even a "heat of the passion" argument would come across better because what you said simply means either she thought it all through and still went ahead with it, or it takes a guy a couple of weeks of putting things in her head to spread her legs for him. Do you really believe she is in any state or position where, even with partner counseling, you can be anywhere near confident she won't do it again?
Note to Plan9: Don't worry, I can see where you're coming from as well. Not that I'll end up agreeing with you, but I understand.
Last edited by Remixer; 07-12-2011 at 07:51 AM..
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