I really don't know what to say, other than you two have a long road ahead if you want to rebuild trust.
You say that she is seeing a counselor about her issues, but have you considered couples counseling? It could help you to understand her motivations behind the cheating. It will also show her that you care enough to proactively work on the relationship and keep something like this from happening again.
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