I think the thing is just to not think of sexual relations as some kind of trial or test, but something that youre both supposed to enjoy.
If you approach it by just thinking of the things you want most to do to a girl, as long as she is okay with it, doing them all: really the feelings and emotional excitement both partners have to the act is far more important a factor to it being satisfying than any physical attribute of either partner.
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"Do not tell lies, and do not do what you hate,
for all things are plain in the sight of Heaven. For nothing
hidden will not become manifest, and nothing covered will remain
without being uncovered."
The Gospel of Thomas
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