floe206

I know..There's been threads on it before...Basically, I'm a great looking guy but in that area I come up a little short..Maybe even a lot...Kind of crappy. It definitely messes with my head. What good are looks if you don't have what it takes to please a lady.. And I know there are other ways, but let's be real here!!

Now I've heard of things like jelqing or some kind of stretches can help, but that sounds kind of risky. There's gotta be a solution..Anyone?

MSD

All non-surgical penis enlargement is bullshit. Surgical penis enlargement has something like a 75% dissatisfaction rate. Women whose male partners are smaller than average tend to be more sexually satisfied because guys who don't measure up in inches tend to compensate by performing better in the full spectrum of sexual activity.

In short, practice your oral skill and don't let it ruin your confidence.

Poetry

What MSD said.

Out of all my partners, my favorite, the most skilled, was probably around 4.5 inches. He could have been 3.5 and it wouldn't have bothered me, he was so good.

Practice. Practice. Practice.

Or, you know, find someone who wants to have sex with you because they love you, and not for the size of your dick or how attractive you are.

__________________
"You know what? Fuck the moon! He controls our water and our women. I've had enough!"

Plan9

No worries. I'm a guy born without a dick and I've got to fight the ladies off me with a machete.

As others have said here: Sex is more than showing up with a 13" truncheon in your shorts.

If you're good looking, do the whole sweep 'em off their feet thing and give great oral? Bingo.

__________________
Whatever you can carry.

"You should not drink... and bake."

MeltedMetalGlob

If oral's not your thing, getting good just using your fingers on the ladies also helps. (speaking from personal experience, not hearsay)

__________________
How's your mom, Ed?

SuburbanZombie

...and stop watching porn....that shit will mess with your head...

floe206

haha yeah, maybe I watch way too much porn. You all make it seem like its a lot easier than it actually is. (not the porn thing, the living with it part)

---------- Post added at 06:51 PM ---------- Previous post was at 06:48 PM ----------

Do they have instruction videos on better oral? Obviously practicing and listening to your partner is probably the only way to learn, but could there possibly be books or videos?

Plan9

Only way to learn:

Endless repetition (many times with many partners) or blunt force trauma (assertive partners).

__________________
Whatever you can carry.

"You should not drink... and bake."

Martian

That's two ways, chief.

__________________
I wake up in the morning more tired than before I slept
I get through cryin' and I'm sadder than before I wept
I get through thinkin' now, and the thoughts have left my head
I get through speakin' and I can't remember, not a word that I said

- Ben Harper, Show Me A Little Shame

floe206

That makes perfect sense. Only problem is I have no one to practice with. This problem definitely messes with my head/confidence...I guess that's a completely different issue though and I could have a whole entire thread about that one. Thanks for the replies though

Strange Famous

I think the thing is just to not think of sexual relations as some kind of trial or test, but something that youre both supposed to enjoy.

If you approach it by just thinking of the things you want most to do to a girl, as long as she is okay with it, doing them all: really the feelings and emotional excitement both partners have to the act is far more important a factor to it being satisfying than any physical attribute of either partner.

__________________
"Do not tell lies, and do not do what you hate,
for all things are plain in the sight of Heaven. For nothing
hidden will not become manifest, and nothing covered will remain
without being uncovered."

The Gospel of Thomas

Plan9

Poorly worded, but it is one way. It's the two sides of the same coin. The idea is familiarization and stress.

Someone that does something over and over without stress will fail when stressed (like all these retards with guns in the US).

Someone that has only done something when stressed isn't properly familiarized (like nervous moms that took that CPR class).

Granted, that logic shouldn't apply to sex, but in the case that it does... here we are.

__________________
Whatever you can carry.

"You should not drink... and bake."

Strange Famous

Chiefing someone out is fighting talk where I'm from! Suspect it doesnt mean the same in the US though.

_

You know, if you want a good time with a girl, just try something a bit racy; for example after you have established a level of intimacy that such comments are possible, just in the evening while watching TV inform her that you want to strip her naked and give her a really good rogering right then and there. If she says ok, just have her over the kitchen table right then and there and really get into the moment... cock size isnt going to be a factor in her enjoyment. If you are really into the moment and focused on it most likely she is. If for whatever reason you tend to finish before her just get her most of the way there before your start with your bloody hand and then its just... bang bang bang, bish bash bosh.

It doesnt have to be over the kitchen table, thats just an example. Have her dress in clothing you especially like. Dress as a fireman if that gets her going... just things to make it different and make it feel like its got that edge to it.

You shouldnt think about it, just get into the moment and enjoy it.

I dont normally go on about perverted stuff and sex techniques, but I have always found just from my own limited experience... if you tell a girl really exactly what you want to do with her in detail, and just get yourself really focused on that emotion as you describe it... if a girl is into you at all that tends to get them going.

If she turns around and says "nah, I dont fancy it" - well youre stuffed, but the problem is going to be something more important than the length of your prick.

_

Oh yeah, and bare in mind that the average size is like 6 inches, and 5-7 inches is the normal range. I obviously dont want to know the size of your dick personally, but keep that in mind when you judge for yourself if size is that much of an issue.

__________________
"Do not tell lies, and do not do what you hate,
for all things are plain in the sight of Heaven. For nothing
hidden will not become manifest, and nothing covered will remain
without being uncovered."

The Gospel of Thomas

slashaddicted

hey its HOW you use it that counts. I've heard this from some girls that guys with big dicks just tend to ram their dicks in women as if they dont have to put any effort in because they have such a massive cock...

Ourcrazymodern?

"Itsy-bitsy spider crawled up the waterspout"

__________________
BE JUST AND FEAR NOT

bentlady

Really now, it's how you do it with what you've got. Women have no need for 9 inches that can't get hard and stay hard. So work with what you've got, work with pleasing her

blar

this needs more female responses

thirtiesgirl

This.

__________________
The first thing I do in the morning is brush my teeth and sharpen my tongue. — Dorothy Parker

ZombieSquirrel

I used to think size mattered because I have had great sex with huge guys and really liked it. Then I met a guy with a smaller than average penis. During an "exploratory" session I discovered he didn't " measure up" to other guys. I was disappointed and turned off so I didn't go any further that night. Then about 6 months later we crossed paths again. Maybe the booze I had coursing through me told me to get over myself and just see what he had to offer. Although he was smaller...he ended up being better than all those other guys. It wasn't the booze that made me think he was better because when I sobered up the next morning and we did the deed again, it was still great.

It was all in my head and I'm thinking this is for you too. I've learned that size really doesn't matter. If a girl wants to be like me and not give you a shot because of your size, she isn't worth it. It is all about confidence. It truly is.

I'm still trying to get over the whole, "I don't like guys shorter than I am." If he's nice to me and fun to be around, I shouldn't care if I tower over him.

__________________
Attack ZombieSquirrels

Martian

As far as I've ever been able to determine, all talk is fighting talk where you're from.

Should I address the thread? Maybe.

If you're good, girls won't care how small your dick is.

If you're terrible, girls won't care how large your dick is.

By the time you get to the point where the pants are off, she's probably already decided to give you a shot either way.

__________________
I wake up in the morning more tired than before I slept
I get through cryin' and I'm sadder than before I wept
I get through thinkin' now, and the thoughts have left my head
I get through speakin' and I can't remember, not a word that I said

- Ben Harper, Show Me A Little Shame

Plan9

Basically:

__________________
Whatever you can carry.

"You should not drink... and bake."

chinese crested

Its not a case of size, but rather what you do with what you have. Be who you are, be yourself, and be who you can be.
Someone told me her best lover had less than two inches - and she had been round the block so often, had it been on soft ground, she would have worn a moat.
Now for old hag advice - another friend working in elderly care said it doesnt matter - when you get old and dead, all you chaps look like you have a wee acorn nestled in your lap.

DB750

Most of the girls I've talked to have said that girth is more important than length so maybe there's a brightside.