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Iforgiveyou · 06-25-2011, 10:16 AM

Very nervous, not sure how to start but here goes..
I met a guy when I was 14... fell in love, hard. We were good friends until I was 17 and then started dating. My feelings for him sky rocketted. We had some good times and some bad times but still to this day, I will tell anyone that he is the one for me. Any whoo..
We broke up when I was 19 and it was sort of messy. I got hurt a lot because I loved him so much.
I met a rebound guy a month later..
3 months after meeting Mr.Rebound, I found out I was pregnant. So I did the right thing and married him. But still very much in love with Mr. Right for me. We went 4 years with out speaking or seeing each other at all...no contact. But I still cried over him and wrote him letters and all that mushy crap. Well I finally found out from the internet that he was in a local band and after 4 years, I just had to see him, so I went. About a month later, I got an email from him wanting to talk, so I did... I followed my heart. And yes, my husband knew about all this. Well I recently found out that he he carrys a lot of guilt for hurting me forever ago. I told him that I forgave him a long time ago but I jus was wondering how to help him move on from the guilt he has and make him feel my forgiveness. Any one have any advice?

06-25-2011, 10:16 AM	#1 (permalink)
Iforgiveyou Upright Location: Florida	How to get over guilt? Very nervous, not sure how to start but here goes.. I met a guy when I was 14... fell in love, hard. We were good friends until I was 17 and then started dating. My feelings for him sky rocketted. We had some good times and some bad times but still to this day, I will tell anyone that he is the one for me. Any whoo.. We broke up when I was 19 and it was sort of messy. I got hurt a lot because I loved him so much. I met a rebound guy a month later.. 3 months after meeting Mr.Rebound, I found out I was pregnant. So I did the right thing and married him. But still very much in love with Mr. Right for me. We went 4 years with out speaking or seeing each other at all...no contact. But I still cried over him and wrote him letters and all that mushy crap. Well I finally found out from the internet that he was in a local band and after 4 years, I just had to see him, so I went. About a month later, I got an email from him wanting to talk, so I did... I followed my heart. And yes, my husband knew about all this. Well I recently found out that he he carrys a lot of guilt for hurting me forever ago. I told him that I forgave him a long time ago but I jus was wondering how to help him move on from the guilt he has and make him feel my forgiveness. Any one have any advice?