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Ignorance is disrespectful ! If somebody asks you yes/no question - answer it. In this case - It's "No" .
Yes , it will sound and he might be offended for a while, but he will understand.
When I lived in London, my housemate had laptop when I didnt have one. I asked him about if I can use it , he just said "No". I was really pissed of.. Seriously - pissed like Chuck Liddell when Tito Ortiz rejected the fight in middle of UFC season. But after a while I understood that it's fine, he was just honest. And this guy I lived together later told me that he doesn't have anything against me, but he doesn't like that somebody uses his stuff.
If your "friend" will ask about you not wanting to hang out - tell him, that you just don't want to hang out with him. not like he is not nice guy , but you just don't see you guys having something in common.
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