My Attraction Issue
I have been thinking about my sexuality recently, and this is going to be more of a mini-rant than a question, but something bugs me. Its not my sexuality itself, its trying to explain it. I'm a male, and I find myself only attracted to transsexuals. The problem with this is I don't know how to tell people about it (hence anonymity of the internet). Unlike being self-defined as "straight" or "gay", people assume it is only a fetish, or that I only think of these people as "glorified sex toys", but I would disagree with that. I always feel like I have treated people as any sensitive, kind, caring man would to his partner, it just seems to be the only body type I am attracted to, and while some might say that makes it a fetish, I would disagree, as many people find themselves only attracted to certain body types/races/genders and people don't necessarily consider it fetishistic because it is a "standard" hetero- or homo- sexual relationship. I'm just not sure if I'm thinking about it the wrong way, or if there is a way I could explain it better to people.
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