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Originally Posted by Midnightskyline
Again, let me stress, niggles. This may sound strange given what i've just said, and how i've said it, but I'd rate our regular sex perhaps 8/10. I've had better sex before with other partners but obviously not with the same connection. But I want to make it 10/10, is there anything so wrong with that?! Not being able to get to 10/10 is undesirable of course, but it wouldn't make me walk out on her.
Call me a wet blanket, spineless, whatever, but I know how I feel and hopefully i've clarified the situation a little.
Thanks as always!!
Oh and what do you think about the vibrator? Should I just buy one anyways, and surprise her with it? Would she put me down? Should I not even give her the chance to be embarassed by talking about it, and just go ahead and do it? This may sound like a small thing but I just don't want to backwards from here by mortifying her!
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I don't think anyone here is advocating for you to leave her because of the sex. I think you should bail because she sounds cruel. When you mentioned her comparing your size to a previous partner, my jaw hit the floor. It would never ever occur to me to say that, no matter how angry I got.
Do not buy her a vibrator without her input. There are so many types and it sounds like you have no idea if she would even want one. I personally would prefer to pick one out with my partner if it was a gift.
In regards to her not masturbating until she was 16-17, I don't think that it's that unusual. I started earlier but I know women that started around that age. It seems like you are trying to find an explanation for some very erratic behavior and there just might not be one.
Whatever you decide to do, I hope everything works out for you.