I have to say this isn't my kind of thing at all, I couldn't handle the image of some other dude getting his way with my significant other.
On the other hand, each to their own. And I can see the appeal in the voyeurism aspect, just not with my girl lol.
I realise this is slightly off-topic, but just out of interest, how did you manage to decide with your wife that swinging was what you both wanted? How did you talk about that? Did you have to persuade her, or vice versa? Basically I'd just like to know how you/she approached such a sensitive topic without either of you thinking the other is crazy. (I say crazy, and i'm not being insensitive, but I guess I'm either too young, closed-minded or culturally ignorant to think that swinging is healthy for a long term relationship).
Maybe it's something i'll grow into? Do you honestly feel no jealousy/rage/protectional instinct when you see some other dude put his cock into your wife? Not being flippant, i'm just curious.
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