She cant be certain of who her ex has had sexual contact with. If she knowingly risked your health - thats wrong. Obviously the other side of the coin is that you like her and enjoy her company. The dog had cancer in her mouth - and that didnt smell very nice - it was cut out and she recovered well from it - and then I didnt have to pretend I liked her kisses - dear old bean. I loved her despite her illnesses. Only you know how muchof your heart you feel safe to freely give. True friendship is of great value - perhaps you could go back to that - you could in all honesty I think, say that her illness scares you, but you want to support her, get her better and see whereyou go from there. Tell her you dont want to tempt fate by building too much in the way of plans for the future. I am glad your sister isnt my doctor - although I do understand that her heart is leaping to your protection.
|