kerrough

The guy I've been intimate with for a few months is a masochist, in any capacity he can get it other than degredation, which doesn't do it for him. I'm willing to please (within reason...no blood or anything that hurts ME too much) and am even growing to enjoy what we do, but I'm *totally* inexperienced/unsure of myself in this area and it's starting to seriously frustrate the both of us that I keep having to take his direction because of it since he's not so big on having to be dominant all the time.

Any advice/suggestions would be very welcome, especially about how to give better rough bjs b/c that's one area that makes me feel kinda squeamy. It's been drilled into my head for my entire sexual life that you're nice to the penis, you don't hurt it, but he very much wants me to, especially with teeth lol

BTW, he's perfectly capable of enjoying the softer type of sex I'm more familiar with, but if he doesn't get his regular dose of pain with sex he gets...restless? Antsy? Definately irritable, that's for sure! lol