Hi Chelle
What you said about about tennis, and what Poetry said about 'Ohmygodimkissingagirlohmygodimkissingagirl', got me thinking.
I know your meatloaf evening has already happened, and I am curious to hear of the outcome. But for now, it occurs to me that the principle of playing games where both are on the same side of the net can better facilitate intimacy. Here, I am just referring to the mechanics of the process. When cooking, there are plenty of opportunities put arms around each other, or to link arms. The language then becomes a language of touch and feel which goes beyond touchy-feely, and allows building more meaningful shared rhythms. A kitchen dance-duet. Will those automatically transfer to kissing? We don't know, but kissing and movement toward intimate touching will no longer be a vertical jump.
Best wishes
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