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From your description, it sounds like he's incredibly inexperienced.
See, he could have had three relationships, but the general rule for guys is that they date women that are younger... and that usually means more inexperienced than they are. If you don't have a natural aptitude for something, it's hard to pick it up when your partners are also unsure as to what they are doing.
It's like playing chess. You might have played three dozen games of chess every week for two years, but if you're only playing a sixth grader, you're not going to improve much.
So... if you were dating someone a bit more experienced, you have the benefit of learning from that person's experience.
I've found that once you get a guy to slow down, they do tend to get better because they actually have to think about what they're doing, actually experience kissing as an art and not just as an activity. But you have to be willing to work with them and not be disappointed because they aren't as far along as you are.
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