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Reminds me of a couple of different kissing experiences.
Experience 1:
I was very attracted to a guy, and he to me. We always had something to talk about. But our first kiss was hilariously bad. We looked at each other afterward, shrugged, and that was that. Our rhythms were completely off, and irreconcilable. We ended up friends for a while, but now I can't even remember his name.
Experience 2:
Another kiss - my husband. He likes gentle pecks. I'm inclined to smooth and soulful with some tongue. At first our kisses confused me, I loved his body, the way he held me, but I wasn't always interested in his kisses. Over time we found a delightful combination of our two distinct styles - pecks leading into substantial and soulful - it's heaven.
So, there you have it. Two very different responses to the same sort of a problem, one of which lead to separation, the other reconciliation. Sometimes people's kissing techniques are incompatible. There's nothing to be embarrassed about. You can think he's a terrible kisser, you can even tell him so. But chances are, he just enjoys something a little different than what you've come to expect. Don't let it bother you, it's not worth this level of worry. Just figure out how you want to deal and don't look back.
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"Sometimes I have to remember that things are brought to me for a reason, either for my own lessons or for the benefit of others." Cynthetiq
"violence is no more or less real than non-violence." roachboy
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