I stand by my advice about the need to keep a close eye on sex partners.
It may not be the nicest thing to have to do, but I'm afraid it's absolutely necessary.
Most likely, she hasn't told you everything about her past, particularly if there are sex partners that she's still seeing.
YES, that does happen.
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Originally Posted by jewels
What makes it practical? It's not much of a discussion when someone answers without a valid explanation. Those of us who've been in long-term relationship know that a relationship's nothing without trust, so two people either have to work extremely hard to get it back or walk away, knowing they can't get past it.
You were in a relationship where someone cheated on you? I'm sorry if you chose to stay with it and found it to be worse than you initially thought, or at least that's my best guess based on your 3 sentences posted in this thread. Wouldn't you agree now that it would've been a lot easier to confront the issue than invade her privacy? how you felt it made Please tell us how your experience impacted you and the relationship better.  |
It may not make for a better relationship, but generally it's not much of a relationship anyway if she's still seeing other people without your being aware.
...and YES, that does happen.