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I think you're both being childish, at least from your description.
You can do nothing about her behavior.
However, you can do something about your mindset.
You trust her... or you don't.
Are you willing to work on the relationship and rebuild that trust with mutual intent for a long-term relationship? Do you even want a long-term relationship with her? Did you take her back out of guilt or hope? A combo?
Are you willing, also, to stop her from exploring during what could be very defining and educational formative years (for her, because of her tumor)? If not, do you think her (what seems to be) lack of real and varied experience may come back to bite you in the ass?
Stop trying to figure out who the childish one is and get a handle on what you truly want from this situation, and if it is even possible to fulfill that desire.
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