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Originally Posted by Mikey5
a big component of cheating is: how healthy is the relationship? People, not just men, won't stray from a good relationship. It's pretty clear when it's starting to go poorly, so people need to talk through their troubles and fix them. Ignoring them or just tolerating them creates distance, that leads to less sex.
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This is very true. I think it is the biggest component to cheating. In the relationship, is the sex good? Is it fulfilling? Is each person satisfied (momentarily)? Be honest and skip the ego.
I think there are three main factors for a guy cheating.
1. Some men are extremely prone to cheating. They have a mindset where they think it is okay to have sex with more than one woman. They don't care or understand how it hurts people. They just care about their sexual excitement. When an opportunity comes usually these guys think "Don't worry about her."
2. Other guys are prone because their relationship is crap. Treat a guy like crap, he is way more prone to cheating. An opportunity comes up, he'll think "She treats me bad, why should I protect her?"
3. For some reason their guard isn't up. Say they get in a fight the night before or they are drunk or a combination of the two. They have a chance and it "just happens." Usually they feel extreme regret.
Those really are the only 3 reasons that a guy cheats.