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A family friend is dealing with this snoopin' and wonderin' issue RFN. She had to know if there was anything, and now she knows. Now she's tiptoing around, dropping hints and digging at something that is totally, totally not what her SO would want out there. This can only lead to a disaster.
I think the only way to deal with your dilemma is straight up, with a full on confession and cleansing conversation. The longer you wait the worse it will be. Either deal with it and clear the air and move on (fess up, talk it out, and cut that snoopin' shit out FFS), or accept that the relationship is now a zombie - it's dead but it doesn't know it.
Then again, if you can trick yourself into playing mind games and finding this past whatever totally hot in a mindfuck way, you can internally role-play, or maybe even get her to ride your own pony now that you have an inkling that that pony is in the stable. Make it a win in a twisted, private and sexually semi-sick way. Your call.
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