I'm sorry for your loss, I find that talking about it helps quite a bit, my best friend was killed almost 3 years ago now, and I try not to dwell on it, but the smallest things remind me of him every now and then. I find when I bring up positive memories and tell someone that is close to me I feel a lot better. I hope you went/go to the memorial as sometimes it helps to be around people who really care. Don't try to forget that it happened but take it in strides and as hard as it is in the beginning, it does get easier!
All the best to you and your family!
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