Isn't it a no brainer that women find men who don't cheat more attractive?
Shows:
-can't show commitment
- isn't loyal/faithful
- isn't trustworthy
- is greedy
- careless
- ect ect
The only only way i could understand cheating men in an attractive light to others is if that 'other' only wanted a sexual relationship that had no 'reserved' rules. So cheating doesn't exist.
But i think there are a few exceptions: As for some reason a cheating guy can imply a few things: 1) he's hard competition for girls to 'tame.' It's attractive for girls to know as a reflection into their own value and ability that they would need to work at 'satisfying' him to keep him theres above the normal girl 2) a show of male ruthlessness means he goes for what he want's, so it's like an attractive confidence in breaking the rules. 3) He would be seen as a 'daring' person.
An old school buddy of mine father commit suicide some time after his wife cheated on him. Just shows even for 'males' that there are those out there who completely invest their security in the other person and it does have a lot of value.
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