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Originally Posted by Manic_Skafe
Throw yourself headlong into what you love, busy yourself with exercise, discover new interests and pick up old passions you've let go.
Once you accept that while the inescapable sadness is natural, it is in more ways than not, just an extension of the same old refusal to accept the obvious and necessary that got you here.
Good luck.
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manic's advice is the bee's knees. i dont know if you're an A-type personality like me but even if not, let those strong emotions (melancholy and fury work pretty well) to propel yourself to doing a better job at everything you were doing before. wanna head out on a friday night? spend the extra 30 min to make sure your ass looks STUNNING. house a little messy? clean up so well that surgeons would pay you to operate on your couch (for the record you'll probably find at least $5 in change in said couch). Bleach the fridge. polish your wooden stuff. find a shitty copy/fax machine and beat the shit out of it with your two best friends, a baseball bat, and and old rap beat. go to toys "R" us and get the biggest lego set you can find and put it together.
dont start playing world of warcraft... just.. dont
sketch what you look like in the mirror. eHow instructions on making ice cream and make liquor root beer floats. leave your wallet and credit cards at home and have a friend take you to a casino with $100 to spend (i recommend watching 'Rounders' or '21' before you do that). go to wal-mart and buy 20 cans of the 96 cent spraypaint and make a mural on the side of an abandoned building. watch Super Troopers. start growing a bonsai tree (hawaiian umbrella is the easiest to take care of and looks cool).
and if you haven't come to an epiphany after you did all that then at least smile knowing that you checked off pretty much my whole bucket list.
keep your head up yeah?