It sounds like you were with a douche, probably because he made you happy most of the time and you dismissed his douche-ness because it didn't seem like that big of a deal or you thought that his good side made up for it. Calibrate your douche-detector and when you're ready, go out there and find a guy who doesn't set off the douche alarm. But remember, you just got out of a long relationship, don't forget to take as much you-time as you need.
You deserve better than a douche.
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