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Well, I noticed he started acting funny when he started a language course for school that he had to learn to be fluent in 8 months learning about 50 new words a day, training, etc. I guess some people don't know how to handle stress and a relationship especially long distance I guess?
I talked to him and he said that when he wanted me back he didn't know I was seeing someone after. I thought he only wanted me back because of that but that day he called he was expressing himself and then called back again when he saw the pictures right after we hung up.
I didn't take him back, so you lost your $10! LOL. It's been about a week now and I know what decision to make. I wouldn't be happy going back because nothing has changed...it'll be the same/worse instead of better. Who knows what will happen in the future...maybe this guy could be the one, maybe I'll meet someone better than these two, maybe I'll end up back with my ex. Wherever life takes me.
I do keep in touch with my ex though. He's been calling me every day now but I'm going to set boundaries. The tables have turned...of course he says he hopes he gets his chance again and that me and the new guy don't last long. But I do want my ex to move on...if we were to ever try again I think a brand new slate would be needed. But even if we don't end up together, it's a win/win if there is no hurt and we are happy with our lives. Even though I'm not with him I do love him and I think I always will care...considering knowing him for 10 years since I was 12!
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