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To be honest he sounds like quite a troubled person who maybe has some emotional issues.
That doesnt mean he cant have good qualities and you should never consider being with someone like that... but it does mean it probably will be hard work, and his instability is likely to rear up again.
If the guy you've been hanging out with now makes you feel happier and more confident, maybe it isnt the best idea to abandon that for a guy who is, at the best reading, pretty intense and pretty troubled. It also sounds like he is using his own unhappiness (which may well be genuine) to try and blackmail you. Again, thats not the best sign.
An intensity of feeling isnt always the same as happiness.
Only you can decide what you want... I myself would choose happiness and contentment over passion and pain.
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"Do not tell lies, and do not do what you hate,
for all things are plain in the sight of Heaven. For nothing
hidden will not become manifest, and nothing covered will remain
without being uncovered."
The Gospel of Thomas
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