chelle21689

That's why I don't want to be back with him. He said he still isn't 100% sure what happened but said he's going to find out. I told him it may be too late by the time he does. The next day he tried to tell me all the improvements he made but I'm not convinced because I need to see it. Actions speak louder than words ya know?

I think I know in my gut to not go back to him and it hurts because I wished so badly for him to come back to me. I just don't know if I'm making the right decision by declining him because his life isn't together and because I was happy with the new guy. It's not fair that things are set back because he pops back into my life =( I really do care for him still. I'm afraid that I'll regret not taking him back...I guess I don't want to admit things would fall apart if we did get back together. At least...right now I know its not right

Plan 9, I disagree. I don't think a man crying is a bad thing unless he cries all the time. the 5 years I've been with him this is the 3rd time I've heard him cry.