Originally Posted by Plan9

And thus the death of TFP presents itself. The one-two punch of forum killers of Assumption and Apathy . Perhaps "Assapathy."

Basically, Cadre... I'm going to drop your name in every ChickenMuffin thread from now until Armageddon. I can dig your attitude.

If all we've got to offer people who take the time to post genuine questions and try to work through genuine problems is "you should know if you can handle it or not" then we might as well turn into the snobby sex elitist version the infamous Yahoo! Answers here. With half naked avatars.

Not only is "you should know if you can handle it or not" a foolish answer (they don't know if they can handle it or not until they've actually done whatever it is that we're talking about, in this case FWB), it doesn't really illustrate the perspective and experiences of those who've done it.

God forbid I ever post some of the things I've wanted to discuss in sexuality. "Oh, this topic again? How tiresome."

Just because you've fucked a platoon of relatively anonymous gray-faces doesn't mean the topic is trite.