Going through these posts, I can see people's point in various places, but at the end of the day I do have to agree with the OP. I think it is significantly harder to make friends with people once you pass through HS/College and into "real life" because most people DON'T move away from everyone and start anew. For those of us that do, it can be difficult. I definitely agree with the "join the rec sports" theory as that has been very successful for me in places I've lived, but only in those that have been cities. Now I live in the country with my darling wife and newborn child and it's VERY difficult to get any social time at all, and the spare time we DO have is often devoted to vegetating. So, yeah, I hear ya.
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