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Is it just me who thinks bitsoda is WAAAYY off base here? There simply is no issue with respect to her. He doesn't own her, her life, or her body. She has freely chosen to share those with him, and to be part of each other's lives. She didn't agree (as far as I know) to subject herself to his control. What she did wasn't cheating and maybe not even inappropriate.
If you cannot handle THIS level of behaviour from your girlfriend, then this and and every other relationship you have is pretty much doomed. She's an ADULT. She gets to decide what legal things she wants to do. Granted this was a drunken escapade, and she may never want to do that again, but your reaction that somehow she has cheapened herself and your relationship speaks to a controlling nature that is going to damage all your relationships.
Let it go and apologise to her.
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