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Originally Posted by hbombaby
-He admitted that his closest guy friends all share naked pictures of their girlfriends. I think this is incredibly weird. Am I alone in thinking that's horribly messed up??
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That's what his
closest friends all do together, and he doesn't take part? I'm not sure I buy that. Birds of a feather and all...your friends say a lot about you. I'm not calling him a liar, but I can't imagine a situation where every single one of them does it in an ongoing manner, and he abstains. If all my friends were crossing a line that I didn't want to cross, well they wouldn't be my closest friends, would they?
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Originally Posted by hbombaby
There just boobs- why could he not just find them on the internet that didn't belong to the girl I was living with at the time?!
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I don't think what he did was right, not at all, but seeing someone you know naked makes the picture seem a little more real and thrilling, I suppose. I wouldn't know though, and I certainly wouldn't find out the way he did.
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Originally Posted by hbombaby
Therapy. He entered therapy again. He use to be there for depression. Now he's there for characteristics of a douchbag teenager and generally just being an asshole. Apparently he wanted to fix himself. Become a person he doesn't hate. Someone not so morally corrupt. He's trying to become accountable for his actions, something he honestly has never been.
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Was he sexually abused as a kid? Repressed memories & strange sexual deviancies seem to go together, especially if he's impulsive and out of control about it. It seems like there's a lot going on with him in his psyche somewhere. He definitely seems to need help, and you should probably take a few steps back while he figures all this stuff out.