For the purposes of being on the same page, I propose a more concrete definition of what a sexless marriage means. One measure suggests it's a marriage in which sexual intimacy occurs less than 10 times per year (which accounts for approximately 20 percent of couples in one survey).
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Where do you fit in there?
What is your desired sexual frequency?
Where does she stand?
Any health issues?
Any non-sexual relationship issues?
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