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Originally Posted by chelle21689
I asked about his exes, and he was very vague like "Oh a lot of the times they leave me for their ex/some other guy....it's not a good feeling" and I get the feeling he doesn't want to open about it.
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If he doesn't want to talk about it, pushing could just push him away.
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Originally Posted by amonkie
From your OP, you've been talking to the guy a month, at best. Talking EVERY night for an hour or more... slow it down a little!
When I think things are going too fast, I clam up. It is perfectly alright to give each of you some breathing room from time to time. It might give both of you a chance to process what you've talked about, and some people just need more time to dwell on things before they have questions or feel comfortable sharing things about themselves.
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Yup.
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Originally Posted by Scants
In some cases I so prefer my PS
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What's a PS?
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Originally Posted by chelle21689
Hey, he asked about my ex!! So why can't I???
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If you're talking and it comes up that's one thing, but if it's all you talk about he might think you're still hung up on the other guy.