From your OP, you've been talking to the guy a month, at best. Talking EVERY night for an hour or more... slow it down a little!
When I think things are going too fast, I clam up. It is perfectly alright to give each of you some breathing room from time to time. It might give both of you a chance to process what you've talked about, and some people just need more time to dwell on things before they have questions or feel comfortable sharing things about themselves.
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Calling from deep in the heart, from where the eyes can't see and the ears can't hear, from where the mountain trails end and only love can go... ~~~ Three Rivers Hare Krishna
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