Well, I'm 22 and I've had only dated one guy my whole life so this experience is super foreign and I don't know what to do and expect! This guy I'm dating has had 3 girlfriends, and his longest relationship was 7 months. I'm sure he has dated around but he's been single for a year.
It was very awkward! I really wanted him to open up about his past! He seemed like he wanted to know about mine but instead it was like he had nothing to say. I'm pretty sure he had a bunch of thoughts running through his head. I said, "Don't be afraid to tell me what you're thinking" and he said "I've got nothing else to say though." I asked about his exes, and he was very vague like "Oh a lot of the times they leave me for their ex/some other guy....it's not a good feeling" and I get the feeling he doesn't want to open about it.
The weird thing about this guy is, is that I can talk to ANYONE about anything and not have a feeling of connection with them. BUT THIS GUY, I feel like he needs to open up and even though he doesn't I feel very attracted to him personality wise. He's done a lot in life so it's like why can't you tell me more stuff?? Why can't you relate? We both have the same views. He'll just agree and give me a couple sentences why. That's it. It's like some days we click and some days we don't. WEIRD and confusing.. Idk if it's just him or if it's just us. Funny thing is, he seems to be really liking me and tells me how much he likes tlaking to me a lot.
Last edited by chelle21689; 03-21-2011 at 09:34 AM..
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