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No right answer
What do you do when someone asks you a question and no matter how you answer it the results would be bad, leading to frustration, yelling, and anxiety.
My fear of confrontation is preventing me from answering a question. If I say no, the person asking will demand a reason and no matter what my reason, there will be a fight. If I say yes, even though I don't really want to, I will be accused of being a bitch when we do what it is the person is asking for - this happened the last time I said Yes, but didn't want to.
So either way, there will be a fight and I don't know what to do.
(Sorry this is so vague - I have my reasons for that too - but I really need TFP's input)
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