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Old 03-16-2011, 05:16 PM   #15 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by ASU2003 View Post
I think the problem is, once a guy gets rejected, it is hard to continue any further with the relationship. And rejection hurts, so he won't try it until he gets signs from you that he won't be rejected.
Girls don't like to be rejected either - I think that is why so many girls hide behind the security of letting the guy make the first move - there is a much lower risk of rejection if you're not the one putting yourself out there first.

It doesn't take much to move things from "just friends" to "hey I'm interested in you... lets see where this goes".

Do what feels natural to you. Some people move much quicker than others. As long as it isn't forced...what's the rush?
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