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keymaker · 03-11-2011, 07:43 AM

Ok-I am a sales rep and last Aug became involved in an email relationship (very XXX) with a woman I see twice per week at an account I service. On 3 occasions she made it clear she wanted to be physical with me, once it happened. I knew she had been living with a woman for 7 years (not just as a roomate...) but she said the relationship was rocky. She also made it clear that she did not label herself as a lesbian. I know I should have backed off and considered it but I was already emotionally vested in it when I found out about the girlfriend and you know how that goes. She was married for 8 years to a somewhat abusive fellow and divorced hime b4 she got involved with her girlfriend. I am 50 she is 40.

Well-she told me a while back that she needed to work on the relationship with the woman and make it better. She is basically a kept woman there as her financial matters were screwed in her divorce. I cooperated fully and we kept up a tame email for awhile but now that has stopped. I still see her twice per week and we are friendly but calm.

About 2 weeks ago I go in to see her and I notice right away that her hair is just like I told her I liked it...and she is extra friendly. Then out of the blue she gives me a gift...a pendant she bought me to hang on my motorcycle. I thought this was a little unusual as I know most folks don't buy unique gifts for someone of the opposite sex for no reason. She has acted very low key since then so I am a little confused...

I would like to ask...especially the ladies...what do you think? Is there something there? Is this gift a signal...or not? She gave me lots of signals back before that she was into me, but not too much after we cooled it. I have acted very hands off since as I am not a needy or clingy person and I think she knows how I feel. Plus I do NOT want to cause any pain for anyone. Since this is a somewhat unique situation I hope we can have lots of discussion here. Thanks in advance for your thoughts.

03-11-2011, 07:43 AM	#1 (permalink)
keymaker Upright Location: N Atlanta Georgia	Need opinions...especially from the ladies! Ok-I am a sales rep and last Aug became involved in an email relationship (very XXX) with a woman I see twice per week at an account I service. On 3 occasions she made it clear she wanted to be physical with me, once it happened. I knew she had been living with a woman for 7 years (not just as a roomate...) but she said the relationship was rocky. She also made it clear that she did not label herself as a lesbian. I know I should have backed off and considered it but I was already emotionally vested in it when I found out about the girlfriend and you know how that goes. She was married for 8 years to a somewhat abusive fellow and divorced hime b4 she got involved with her girlfriend. I am 50 she is 40. Well-she told me a while back that she needed to work on the relationship with the woman and make it better. She is basically a kept woman there as her financial matters were screwed in her divorce. I cooperated fully and we kept up a tame email for awhile but now that has stopped. I still see her twice per week and we are friendly but calm. About 2 weeks ago I go in to see her and I notice right away that her hair is just like I told her I liked it...and she is extra friendly. Then out of the blue she gives me a gift...a pendant she bought me to hang on my motorcycle. I thought this was a little unusual as I know most folks don't buy unique gifts for someone of the opposite sex for no reason. She has acted very low key since then so I am a little confused... I would like to ask...especially the ladies...what do you think? Is there something there? Is this gift a signal...or not? She gave me lots of signals back before that she was into me, but not too much after we cooled it. I have acted very hands off since as I am not a needy or clingy person and I think she knows how I feel. Plus I do NOT want to cause any pain for anyone. Since this is a somewhat unique situation I hope we can have lots of discussion here. Thanks in advance for your thoughts.