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Originally posted by Gman
I had thought that my feelings for her were no longer affecting the way I thought
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By your own words, you still have feelings for her, so of course they will be affecting the way you think. However, it's not neccesarily in a bad way. Try to distance yourself in your mind and ask yourself: Do you think this is bad because you see him as a threat to your hopes of getting with her eventually? Do you you see this guy as a threat from the point of view of him maybe hurting her (emotionally or otherwise) and are worried about her/want to protect her? Or are you simply genuinly concerned about her happiness and just want what's best for you - note - if this was the case you'd have to be happy with her going with him - see if you can admit to yourself that you would be.
HTH