Yes, you're crazy.
It's ridiculous. You're in love with an idea, not another human being that has a crap job they wanna talk about, an ex that Facebooks them, funny OCD quirks, gets zits in weird places and farts in their sleep. The reality of a person is always different than your online wet dream. You might meet someone that seems great and has a lot of potential on the Web through dating sites like OkCupid and PlentyOfFish, but you're straight retarded if you think the person IMing/webcamming you is what you think they are. People are like the moon, they have a hidden side you can't see without doing a walk-around.
I think it's super okay to get super infatuated with someone online. It happens all the time. Every woman I've been with I've met using websites. But you need to realize that your current obsession has been largely filled in by your own rose-colored monitor. Enjoy the feeling but be a bit more realistic.
Last edited by Plan9; 03-05-2011 at 02:30 AM..
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