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First I'll apologize if I'm retracing someone's steps as I only skimmed the above posts.
I had break-up sex with an ex who was my college girlfriend a few weeks after receiving a "Dear John" email. Physically we both had very active sex drives and justified it by saying "well, if neither of us if going to be getting any in the near future, let's have one more go." Emotionally for me anyway, it was more of a if she still finds me physically attractive, maybe she'll eventually take me back need. In hindsight it really made the breakup and "getting over" period much harder to process and accept.
Afterwards, I tried to have a slutty period when I could meet someone in a bar, take them home, get my rocks off, and then move on. But I've found that mentally, I'm just not wired for that kind of behavior. The emotional aspect of sex can be as, if not more so, rewarding than the purely physical aspect.
For me, emotion-free sex is what porn and fleshlights are for.
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