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Before the breakup... no way would I be into that. Breaking up with someone is not a casual thing, and it carries an emotional toll that just doesn't make me even want to think about it. I'm not talking about a casual girlfriend I've had sex with a few times, I'm talking about a serious relationship. There's a sense of loss that just dampens my libido. It may not last long, but sex just isn't a priority for me. Sleep & solitude tend to come first (I want to lick my wounds).
Post breakup, I've been drug out of my shell by my friends and found myself actually interested in (& pursuing) a new girlfriend far faster than I had thought I would. And I've found my interest in sex to be much greater than I thought it would be were I left alone.
So... breakup sex? I've done it, but the reasons seem almost impossible to articulate. I'm not sure this makes sense, and should point out that all of this is WAY, WAY in the past, so my aging memory adds vagueness to the whole thing.
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