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You don't seem sexually compatible.
This might be obvious, but it seems to be the central problem. It's always a shame when people simply are coming from different places sexually, and yet they're married so they feel that this is "it".
It opens up interesting conversations. Is the institution of marriage, and the (assumed) monogamous bond between the married important enough for the sex to adapt to the relationship (as in therapy) - or is sexuality deeply engrained enough to have it work the other way around? Should the relationship adapt to the sex, as in polyamory?
Let's suppose therapy doesn't work, what then? Try to force adaptability? How often does therapy work for people who are coming at the issue from radically opposed angles?
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