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Originally Posted by Plan9
Baseball has clearly defined rules that anybody can Google.
Do fetishes have the same? Can I get a manual on BDSM?
No, I'd imagine it varies greatly from individual to individual.
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Again, I wonder what Cadre expected from the party.
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I'm only being a half an asshole in this thread because I'd be one of the "posers." Let's say my girlfriend and I show up just to see what is going on, meet some new people and enjoy the provocative environment that others that aren't "posers" are pushing. If I show up in a Kool-Aid "Oh yeaaah!" t-shirt and she's wearing a corset, does that mean we're not welcome? I hope not. I would expect a lot more from a crowd that has "no limits."
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Actually yes, it basically does have a manual. Go to fetlife and look up the fetishes. They have thousands.
Everyone I've met from the lifestyle has been nice and welcoming. But there's pricks everywhere.
For instance Plan9 (you should like this one) there is a fetish for military interrogation.