bagatelle

I don't think I need an analysis for that, something I noticed in myself and was trying to talk to this person about.

I really haven't studied psychology myself either. Anything I have read is just pieces here and there and I often tend to read things that I can understand with common sense.

I have a feeling, this person would have wanted to give me some kind of "label" by analyzing me and my stories about my life, which came up in exchange of emails. My life has been pretty ordinary. I guess I just didn't expect that I was some sort of rehearsal material for him in his studies of people.

Re power at work: I don't think I admire a leader per se. Rather someone, who knows what he's doing or is good at something, it doesn't have to be a leading position. I have experience of a boss, who can talk and be calm and persuasive, but it's all words, mostly lies about promising this and that, then not keeping his word. That's really icky.

Of course, the voice is not the only thing I'm attracted to in a man, this just surfaced more to my mind lately, when I have been talking to other people than my husband.

There is no analysis to "fix" a situation I know I'm in already: I can't discuss many things with my husband, without him getting edgy.

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