After reading your last post I am thinking, 'sex therapy.' But star beat me to it.
She seems to have some pretty strong negative associations with sex that need to be addressed, I think, if you're going to have a mutually satisfying sex life. She needs to be able to talk about it. If not with you right away, then with a therapist who can encourage her to express herself openly in that way.
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