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Borla · 02-15-2011, 03:23 PM

You HAVE to communicate with her and find out what's making her tick (or not tick, in this case).

My first question for her would be to find out if she is saying no because she means no, or is it because she wants you to be more dominant than you are being.

If she's honestly apprehensive, explore what you can do to make her less so. Women are complex creatures. Maybe it's something as simple as too much light, too worried of someone overhearing, or that she needs you to spend some time loosening her up by rubbing her shoulders and getting her relaxed and de-stressed first. But only she can tell you. Any good answer here is going to involve you having detailed conversation with her.

02-15-2011, 03:23 PM	#3 (permalink)
Borla Junkie	You HAVE to communicate with her and find out what's making her tick (or not tick, in this case). My first question for her would be to find out if she is saying no because she means no, or is it because she wants you to be more dominant than you are being. If she's honestly apprehensive, explore what you can do to make her less so. Women are complex creatures. Maybe it's something as simple as too much light, too worried of someone overhearing, or that she needs you to spend some time loosening her up by rubbing her shoulders and getting her relaxed and de-stressed first. But only she can tell you. Any good answer here is going to involve you having detailed conversation with her. __________________ Coimhéad fearg fhear na foighde!!!! Last edited by Borla; 02-15-2011 at 03:25 PM..