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Maybe she's just not that into you.
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Yeah, I don't get the waffling on sex activities either. Usually by the time I'm at the finger-in-the-ass category of a relationship we're picking out major appliances together. Over the course of a relationship, the items on the sexual menu increase and then plateau until someone lets the freak out of the closet or someone finds Jesus. I have no idea what to make of this. Her side of the story would be useful. Express your serious concern. You're not happy. Nobody wants to be sexually unsatisfied in a relationship. Painful open conversation might benefit you both. I'm not saying that you're not being straight with her and her with you, but sometimes you have to Dr. Phil the shit out of each other at the kitchen table on a Saturday at 10:38 hours.
I've done such just recently. I'm in a situation where my partner, a Certified Good Fuck, is completely happy with sex as long as she orgasms. Which isn't too hard to do. And while I'm just as much on the science side as her, I'm also way more on the art side as far as fucking is concerned. I have needs.
Other Big Duh: Some people just aren't as sexual as others. I've been with girls that talked such a raunchy good sack game but were only comfortable getting fucked Amish style. Maybe you unleashed the beast on her and she's not comfortable with your overwhelming freestyle flow, Dr. Feelgood.