I would say 1 year and 4 months is a pretty decent amount of time getting to know one another. Im surprised these things are still issues that have gone unresolved in that amount of time. Unless they have been (ignored) issues from day one. Do you know what she is looking for in a relationship? Do you know much about her background? Relationshipwise, familywise, healthwise. If you don't I would suggest you try to learn more about these things. The devil is in the details, as they say.
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